I have a bunch of post that deal with friends. Everyone needs friends, and they are a huge part of your life.
I complain to Kevin all the time about how we don't have friends any more. I'm starting to realize, just because we don't have plans every night of the week, doesn't mean we don't have any friends.
I hung out with a very dear friend of mine last night, and after we finished walking Struble, we grabbed some Rita's and sat and talked some more. One of the things we talked about was friendship, and how people have changed over the years and how different it is from college. That's when I had an epiphany! Like seriously, everything just clicked in my head and I had a huge 'ah ha!' moment.
Different stages of life are just that, different. Things are going to change. In high school there were sporting events and different activities always going on, and if all else fails, there was the mall. It was easy to be social. College doesn't even need an explanation it can be summed up in one word, dorm. You have 30 people living within 30 yards of you! Guarantee someone is around to do something with! Walk out in the quad, and there would be at least 2 or 3 pick up games of frisbee, or football, or soccer going on that you could join in (at least until they built the mega dorms, but don't get me started). I got involved with Cru, and they were always having parties, or going to Philly, or seeing a show. It's easy to meet a new person every night of the week if you wanted to. It was so easy to make friends, and to grow those friendships because time and location weren't an issue. Heck, I lived with 2 of my besties (Tripleship!) and the 3rd was in my major so I saw her just as much. It was easy to have dinner night once a week, and late night talks and giggle fest. Now it takes effort. You can't whisper to the girl sleeping in the bunk above you, you have to pick up the phone and call, leave a message, wait for a call back... You can't decide to take a walk at midnight and have them come along, you have to make plans a month in advance. Life changes means changes with everything, including friendships, it takes effort, it isn't easy, but true friendships will win out.
I don't know if that makes any sense to anyone else (if anyone is even reading this), but it really clicked with me. There isn't anything wrong with me, life has changed and I just have to make more of an effort, as do they.
Wednesday, July 15, 2009
Tuesday, July 14, 2009
Beach Trip
Ahh, vacation...
So much fun, relaxing, playing games (sports and cards) with the family, endless hours of reading, browsing the boardwalk, dinners out, and the feel of the sand, sound of the ocean, and smell of the salt. Mmm, I miss it!
We rented a place almost right on the beach in OCMD, we could see the ocean from our balcony! So nice. While I'm used to having a beach house, which offers a little more space than a condo, it was nice being able to look out on the ocean.
Kevin's been editing the pictures, so they are on his computer, and it was breezy most of the week and I didn't want to risk getting sand in the camera and ruining it, so most of these are from my little Canon.
Early morning walks with momma
Riding the waves...which were HUGE by the way! The guard were off their stands making rescues ever few minutes.
One of the few from our nice camera...I think it'll be sweet once it's touched up.
Little bro skim boarding
Dinner at Seacrets...their side of the table...
Our side of the table...
Looking back is making me want August to be here now so we can go on vacation with Kev's family!!!
So much fun, relaxing, playing games (sports and cards) with the family, endless hours of reading, browsing the boardwalk, dinners out, and the feel of the sand, sound of the ocean, and smell of the salt. Mmm, I miss it!
We rented a place almost right on the beach in OCMD, we could see the ocean from our balcony! So nice. While I'm used to having a beach house, which offers a little more space than a condo, it was nice being able to look out on the ocean.
Kevin's been editing the pictures, so they are on his computer, and it was breezy most of the week and I didn't want to risk getting sand in the camera and ruining it, so most of these are from my little Canon.
Early morning walks with momma
Riding the waves...which were HUGE by the way! The guard were off their stands making rescues ever few minutes.
One of the few from our nice camera...I think it'll be sweet once it's touched up.
Little bro skim boarding
Dinner at Seacrets...their side of the table...
Our side of the table...
Looking back is making me want August to be here now so we can go on vacation with Kev's family!!!
Monday, July 13, 2009
Birthday and Anniversary Fun!
Ok, so I've been seriously slacking on posting. Not that anyone reads this anyways...
This past week was both our 2nd anniversary and my 26th birthday! Wow am I getting old!!! We didn't do anything big to celebrate, in fact, I barely even saw Kevin on our anniversary. About a month ago we bought a Wii from one of Kevin's student for a very reasonable price and decided that was going to be our anniversary and birthday presents to each other. Maybe that's part of the reason I haven't been on here as much...too busy playing a video game! Haha, I never thought I'd see the day where I'd actually like to play. For my birthday he got very creative and stayed within our budget by creating a scavenger hunt, making me dinner AND a super yummy double chocolate and mint cake from scratch! Yup, he's all mine. :-) I took pictures of the dinner/cake, but can't seem to find them. They must be on the other camera.
My sister-in-loves birthday is 3 days before mine, so we celebrated her 30th on the 4th of July. Since Kevin had to work a tourney, I went with him and we got to the party a little late, but were at least able to see everyone for a little, and enjoy some cake and other yummys.
Carol blowing out the candles.
Can you tell they are brothers?
Kevin corrupting Joey...
If only we were there earlier when it was hot and could enjoy the lovely pool...
This past week was both our 2nd anniversary and my 26th birthday! Wow am I getting old!!! We didn't do anything big to celebrate, in fact, I barely even saw Kevin on our anniversary. About a month ago we bought a Wii from one of Kevin's student for a very reasonable price and decided that was going to be our anniversary and birthday presents to each other. Maybe that's part of the reason I haven't been on here as much...too busy playing a video game! Haha, I never thought I'd see the day where I'd actually like to play. For my birthday he got very creative and stayed within our budget by creating a scavenger hunt, making me dinner AND a super yummy double chocolate and mint cake from scratch! Yup, he's all mine. :-) I took pictures of the dinner/cake, but can't seem to find them. They must be on the other camera.
My sister-in-loves birthday is 3 days before mine, so we celebrated her 30th on the 4th of July. Since Kevin had to work a tourney, I went with him and we got to the party a little late, but were at least able to see everyone for a little, and enjoy some cake and other yummys.
Carol blowing out the candles.
Can you tell they are brothers?
Kevin corrupting Joey...
If only we were there earlier when it was hot and could enjoy the lovely pool...
Monday, June 1, 2009
Market
This weekend was the first time in the almost eight years that I've lived here that I ventured to the Grower's Market in town. I have heard amazing things about it by so many, and lately one of the girls at work has been trying to convince me to go.
Surprisingly for West Chester parking was too bad despite the herds of people. It was so cute seeing all the little tents set up and all the yummy, fresh foods underneath them. There were a bunch on Amish stands, and it really made me feel like I was back home. It was like all the roadside stands in one location! Lancaster does have it's own market, and I've been to Central Market numerous times. West Chester's doesn't even come close to comparing, but it's nice to have something close by.
Mmm so much good food how to chose? Next time I have a free Saturday morning I am so there! Why can't it open earlier than 9???
Surprisingly for West Chester parking was too bad despite the herds of people. It was so cute seeing all the little tents set up and all the yummy, fresh foods underneath them. There were a bunch on Amish stands, and it really made me feel like I was back home. It was like all the roadside stands in one location! Lancaster does have it's own market, and I've been to Central Market numerous times. West Chester's doesn't even come close to comparing, but it's nice to have something close by.
Mmm so much good food how to chose? Next time I have a free Saturday morning I am so there! Why can't it open earlier than 9???
Tuesday, May 26, 2009
Kelbel's Wedding
What a crazy fun wedding weekend!
Friday night was the dress rehearsal and we were blessed with lovely weather. It was warm and sunny, we had tons of yummy food and good company. Practice went smoothly, and the gifts were lovely pearl jewelry that Kel made.
There was so much going on, and somehow it was almost midnight before we got to bed. It's been forever since the 4 of us have had a sleepover. :-)
4:30 rolled around way too soon, and it was time to get our hair all done up,
and clean off the chairs and prep for the ceremony. 
It was absolutely beautiful and perfect! Kelly and Nate are so perfect together. Oh, and I know how everyone says that it's a small world, but it seriously is. One of my best friends from high school was at the wedding because his fiance is friends with Kel! Crazy.
Sarah and I :-)
Stephy!
Me and the gorgeous bride!!!
The reception was at Shady Maple! We all know how awesome there food is :-) I just can't believe that it is all over...so many months of preparation, first the shower, then the bachelorette party and now the wedding. It was a good excuse for us friends to get together and catch up. Now everyone will be back to their normal lives and too busy for each other. :-( I wish we all lived closer. Maybe someday.
At least I get to live with my very best friend! :-)
Friday night was the dress rehearsal and we were blessed with lovely weather. It was warm and sunny, we had tons of yummy food and good company. Practice went smoothly, and the gifts were lovely pearl jewelry that Kel made.
There was so much going on, and somehow it was almost midnight before we got to bed. It's been forever since the 4 of us have had a sleepover. :-)4:30 rolled around way too soon, and it was time to get our hair all done up,
and clean off the chairs and prep for the ceremony. 
It was absolutely beautiful and perfect! Kelly and Nate are so perfect together. Oh, and I know how everyone says that it's a small world, but it seriously is. One of my best friends from high school was at the wedding because his fiance is friends with Kel! Crazy.
Sarah and I :-)
Stephy!
Me and the gorgeous bride!!!The reception was at Shady Maple! We all know how awesome there food is :-) I just can't believe that it is all over...so many months of preparation, first the shower, then the bachelorette party and now the wedding. It was a good excuse for us friends to get together and catch up. Now everyone will be back to their normal lives and too busy for each other. :-( I wish we all lived closer. Maybe someday.
At least I get to live with my very best friend! :-)
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Valentine's Day
Kevin surprised me with reservations for dinner at Simone Pierce! I'm not one for celebrating Valentines day, because I don't see why we can't show our love to each other on any other random day, or get dressed up for a nice dinner. 
Anyways, dinner was excellent! It snowed on our way there and back, which made for a beautiful drive through West Chester. Our waiter happened to be a glassblower also, so we got to learn how they do it and some inside secrets. Ok, maybe not secrets, but it sounds cooler that way. To end the evening they gave us a cute glass bowl with absolutely deli
Anyways, dinner was excellent! It snowed on our way there and back, which made for a beautiful drive through West Chester. Our waiter happened to be a glassblower also, so we got to learn how they do it and some inside secrets. Ok, maybe not secrets, but it sounds cooler that way. To end the evening they gave us a cute glass bowl with absolutely deli
Monday, February 9, 2009
Saving The Day
I was wrapping a few things up at work today, and running a little behind when I got a call from Kevin. Normally he comes home shortly after me, so I wasn't expecting him to call to see if I was on my way home or heading to the gym. He was calling because he had one of these: 
Flat tires are no fun, especially when you don't have a tire iron to take the lug nuts off, and even if you did, your jack was rusted shut. Well, my jack didn't turn out to be much better. I guess when they made Maxima's in the 90's they thought it'd be nice to put a jack in the car, but no crank for it. So the guys had to turn it by hand with a pair of my pliers. (Good thing this chick has a car fully load with tools.) :-) Look at how thankful he is I came to his rescue!
This little bugger turned out to be the culprit. Thank goodness we won't have to buy a new tire (or 2).
Flat tires are no fun, especially when you don't have a tire iron to take the lug nuts off, and even if you did, your jack was rusted shut. Well, my jack didn't turn out to be much better. I guess when they made Maxima's in the 90's they thought it'd be nice to put a jack in the car, but no crank for it. So the guys had to turn it by hand with a pair of my pliers. (Good thing this chick has a car fully load with tools.) :-) Look at how thankful he is I came to his rescue!
This little bugger turned out to be the culprit. Thank goodness we won't have to buy a new tire (or 2).
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